It’s true what they say; relationships and marriages require work and effort. Lots and lots of work and effort. One underrated struggle people in relationships face is how to handle themselves when they have serious crush on other people. Here’s the thing: being genuinely in love with a man or woman does not magically take away the inclination to be attracted to other people. If you think that getting your dream guy will automatically make you immune to every other man, you are on a long thing. As a matter of fact, life seems to somehow have a way of bringing the most amazing people of the opposite s*x your way just after you have already gotten into a relationship or decided to settle down with someone. Getting into a serious relationship or even walking down the aisle to recite your wedding vows in front of God and man will not stop you from being attracted to other people. It’s all part of the natural process. It’s one of the struggles you’ll like...